"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I've been seeing this chick for a while, she's not super hot but she's cute and definately bangable (HB7). Well, I've been having sex with her for the last few months, but recently I noticed that I'm not really that into her. I never really wanted to have a full blown relationship with her. Now, it's come to the point that I don't even want sex from her that often, just when I'm really horny. My interest in her has gone down significantly.

The sex was good at first but now its just routine, but in the end I still bust so I can't complain. What should I do? Should I just next this girl and move on to the next one?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If you feel the relationship is doomed and you don't see yourself with her in the future, yeah, I would say move on. Its better to do it now and find a girl who makes you hot and excited to be with than to stay in an unfulfilling relationship.
 
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It's time to move on, for your sake! Sticking in a relationship that is unfulfilling will bring you back into world of AFCness. Just get out and meet new girls. Keep her around and see how things go. If you find you want to move on, do so. Don't torture yourself. Being a DJ is about YOU first!
 
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Thanks for your help guys. I just kind of feel bad because this girl is in love with me and I'm gonna be ditching her after 6 months of bangage. Oh well, you gotta do what you gotta do.
 
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Ya' its always tough hurting someone. You have to look after yourself first.

You aren't a bad person or anything - just be sure not to drag it on if you aren't interested.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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same thing happened to me my senior year. But I had to tell her, I just lost interest, the spark wasn't there anymore. And I moved on to bigger and better things. So yeah, NEXT the ***** ;)
 
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