"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I've been seeing this chick for a while, she's not super hot but she's cute and definately bangable (HB7). Well, I've been having sex with her for the last few months, but recently I noticed that I'm not really that into her. I never really wanted to have a full blown relationship with her. Now, it's come to the point that I don't even want sex from her that often, just when I'm really horny. My interest in her has gone down significantly.

The sex was good at first but now its just routine, but in the end I still bust so I can't complain. What should I do? Should I just next this girl and move on to the next one?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you feel the relationship is doomed and you don't see yourself with her in the future, yeah, I would say move on. Its better to do it now and find a girl who makes you hot and excited to be with than to stay in an unfulfilling relationship.
 
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It's time to move on, for your sake! Sticking in a relationship that is unfulfilling will bring you back into world of AFCness. Just get out and meet new girls. Keep her around and see how things go. If you find you want to move on, do so. Don't torture yourself. Being a DJ is about YOU first!
 
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Thanks for your help guys. I just kind of feel bad because this girl is in love with me and I'm gonna be ditching her after 6 months of bangage. Oh well, you gotta do what you gotta do.
 
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Ya' its always tough hurting someone. You have to look after yourself first.

You aren't a bad person or anything - just be sure not to drag it on if you aren't interested.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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same thing happened to me my senior year. But I had to tell her, I just lost interest, the spark wasn't there anymore. And I moved on to bigger and better things. So yeah, NEXT the ***** ;)
 
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