"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lost.....girl.....next step

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Hey well this hb 9 is into me. Today is Band Camp for marching band and she tries to stand next to me hoping I say something ( I usually dont say much still an RAFC/AFC) and today during lunch she sat in the same chair that I was sitting on. She is a Senior and now I am a Sophmore. I knew her from last year. And that was when I was an AFC but was kinda succesful until she went out with someone else other than me.She is not as loud as some other girls, but more mysterious. she keeps looking at me and well I usualy smile and have her break eye contact. Well I have 1 and a 1/2 hours before I see her again and Im kinda lost. I dont know what the next step is. I use kino but still lost. If you have any advise it would help.

And dont bash on me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Just make conversation and try using the "i thought of a nickname for u, but its too private to tell u in public, so give me ur number and illt ell u"


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Originally posted by phatboi408
plus what should the nickname be?
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thats ur job man...I dont know her or her personality. I would pick some quirky thing with her personality and twist it into a funny name, be sure not to do it on her appearance though
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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its not so much the nickname itself...its the curiosity and the anticipation for it. Sometimes when i get to telling her the nickname i say a random word such as bucket.....she will ask why? you respond......jeeze i already told u the nickname...now u wanna know why?? yoour a handfull arent u...now she will beg to know why and wonder
 
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Sorry to go off topic, but HB9's go to band camp?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by phatboi408
O yeah. about 5 of 63 are hb9 throug hb8, but I know all of them and trying to use my DJ skills.
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So when you are playing the flute you whisper to that girl, "hey, hey you, look, it's long"?
 
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Can the nickname thing also be used on a girl you haven't talked to in a while?-As a way to get her interest back up?
 
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Originally posted by trans_am17
Can the nickname thing also be used on a girl you haven't talked to in a while?-As a way to get her interest back up?
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yes definetly, I wouldnt use that as my opener thugh. i would be like "hey i havent talked to u for a while, come here give me a hug" then use the nickname technique

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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