"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Lost.....girl.....next step

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Hey well this hb 9 is into me. Today is Band Camp for marching band and she tries to stand next to me hoping I say something ( I usually dont say much still an RAFC/AFC) and today during lunch she sat in the same chair that I was sitting on. She is a Senior and now I am a Sophmore. I knew her from last year. And that was when I was an AFC but was kinda succesful until she went out with someone else other than me.She is not as loud as some other girls, but more mysterious. she keeps looking at me and well I usualy smile and have her break eye contact. Well I have 1 and a 1/2 hours before I see her again and Im kinda lost. I dont know what the next step is. I use kino but still lost. If you have any advise it would help.

And dont bash on me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Smooth Player 056

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Just make conversation and try using the "i thought of a nickname for u, but its too private to tell u in public, so give me ur number and illt ell u"


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Originally posted by phatboi408
plus what should the nickname be?
thats ur job man...I dont know her or her personality. I would pick some quirky thing with her personality and twist it into a funny name, be sure not to do it on her appearance though
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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its not so much the nickname itself...its the curiosity and the anticipation for it. Sometimes when i get to telling her the nickname i say a random word such as bucket.....she will ask why? you respond......jeeze i already told u the nickname...now u wanna know why?? yoour a handfull arent u...now she will beg to know why and wonder
 

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Sorry to go off topic, but HB9's go to band camp?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by phatboi408
O yeah. about 5 of 63 are hb9 throug hb8, but I know all of them and trying to use my DJ skills.
So when you are playing the flute you whisper to that girl, "hey, hey you, look, it's long"?
 

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Can the nickname thing also be used on a girl you haven't talked to in a while?-As a way to get her interest back up?
 

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Originally posted by trans_am17
Can the nickname thing also be used on a girl you haven't talked to in a while?-As a way to get her interest back up?
yes definetly, I wouldnt use that as my opener thugh. i would be like "hey i havent talked to u for a while, come here give me a hug" then use the nickname technique

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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