Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
If it's someone you went to high school with you should try www.classmates.com
By people search do you mean where you type the name's person into a search engine, such as google or dogpile.com with quotes around the name i.e. "John Smith"? This actually can be an effective method, my mom did find somebody from her college days by typing their name into google. Generally though it is a long shot. Try it with your name first and see what you get, most likely the names you find will be doctors, lawyers, and professors (least I did with my name).
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
