"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Lost "enlightened man" in need of advice

Frostwand

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Hi,

For the past few weeks I've been reading The Rational Male and doing researches on Masculininty and intersexual dynamics and needless to say that I'm a bit lost. Everything I've read and still reading is confirming years of observations I did on my own but I didn't aknowledge because of my feminized conditioning.

Now, I'm wondering, what to do with all this information ? I want to make the change, I really do, but I'm restrained by a lack of self-esteem (I guess?) or timidity (or both) in my potential with women. How to break free from it ? How to use this information to be a better man and free myself from my AFC mindset ?

Some information, I'm a 23 years old male & a gym rat.

Thanks for the support and the forums. It's conforting knowing I'm not alone :up:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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