"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lost cause if girl has ring on left ring finger?

thunder_god

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I was gaming an employee at a Buffalo store today who I had spoken to a few weeks back, and then when I went to pay for my stuff with her cashing me out, I noticed she had a pearl ring on her left ring finger. Should I not even bother gaming her anymore and just give up? I had just gotten her name today after busting her balls for several minutes and having fun with her. She was the hottest girl to date that I have gamed. I was planning on returning back on another day when the store wasn't as busy to build some more rapport with her and flirt with her and possibly ask her out if she was receptive.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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devilkingx2

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whenever I see a girl wearing a ring on their ring finger I joke about their husband/marriage, granted most of the girls I know and talk to are too young to realistically be married but still
 

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devilkingx2 said:
whenever I see a girl wearing a ring on their ring finger I joke about their husband/marriage, granted most of the girls I know and talk to are too young to realistically be married but still
Ya she looked pretty young like early to middle 20's. I didn't expect that. Ah well, what can you do.
 

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That's why there's a ring there: To say "I'm unavailable". Those chicks are good for a few minutes to practice on, nothing more.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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thunder_god said:
I was planning on returning back on another day when the store wasn't as busy to build some more rapport with her and flirt with her and possibly ask her out if she was receptive.
My question to you is, why don't you spend your time gaming a woman without a ring on her left finger? You might get a date that way, this chick is taken.



jake-a-roo4 said:
If you look like Brad Pitt, Channing Tatum, or George Clooney I say to go for it!

HAHAHA
 

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thunder_god said:
Ya she looked pretty young like early to middle 20's. I didn't expect that. Ah well, what can you do.
I meant that you should try to covertly confirm that she's married before you write her off, she might just be wearing a ring there, just because(the likelihood of that goes down as her age goes up)

VladPatton said:
That's why there's a ring there: To say "I'm unavailable". Those chicks are good for a few minutes to practice on, nothing more.
probably but not necessarily
 

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devilkingx2 said:
I meant that you should try to covertly confirm that she's married before you write her off, she might just be wearing a ring there, just because(the likelihood of that goes down as her age goes up)



probably but not necessarily
How would you recommend I do that? What line or question would you ask her covertly?

I probably won't go back there again until a few weeks from now. It'd look kind of creepy if I kept on coming in all the time. Also the next time I come in, I want to be even better then this time and I definitely will be as I'm learning from all these other amateur PUA's every week.
 
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