"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lost cause if girl has ring on left ring finger?

thunder_god

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I was gaming an employee at a Buffalo store today who I had spoken to a few weeks back, and then when I went to pay for my stuff with her cashing me out, I noticed she had a pearl ring on her left ring finger. Should I not even bother gaming her anymore and just give up? I had just gotten her name today after busting her balls for several minutes and having fun with her. She was the hottest girl to date that I have gamed. I was planning on returning back on another day when the store wasn't as busy to build some more rapport with her and flirt with her and possibly ask her out if she was receptive.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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whenever I see a girl wearing a ring on their ring finger I joke about their husband/marriage, granted most of the girls I know and talk to are too young to realistically be married but still
 

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devilkingx2 said:
whenever I see a girl wearing a ring on their ring finger I joke about their husband/marriage, granted most of the girls I know and talk to are too young to realistically be married but still
Ya she looked pretty young like early to middle 20's. I didn't expect that. Ah well, what can you do.
 

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That's why there's a ring there: To say "I'm unavailable". Those chicks are good for a few minutes to practice on, nothing more.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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thunder_god said:
I was planning on returning back on another day when the store wasn't as busy to build some more rapport with her and flirt with her and possibly ask her out if she was receptive.
My question to you is, why don't you spend your time gaming a woman without a ring on her left finger? You might get a date that way, this chick is taken.



jake-a-roo4 said:
If you look like Brad Pitt, Channing Tatum, or George Clooney I say to go for it!

HAHAHA
 

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thunder_god said:
Ya she looked pretty young like early to middle 20's. I didn't expect that. Ah well, what can you do.
I meant that you should try to covertly confirm that she's married before you write her off, she might just be wearing a ring there, just because(the likelihood of that goes down as her age goes up)

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That's why there's a ring there: To say "I'm unavailable". Those chicks are good for a few minutes to practice on, nothing more.
probably but not necessarily
 

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devilkingx2 said:
I meant that you should try to covertly confirm that she's married before you write her off, she might just be wearing a ring there, just because(the likelihood of that goes down as her age goes up)



probably but not necessarily
How would you recommend I do that? What line or question would you ask her covertly?

I probably won't go back there again until a few weeks from now. It'd look kind of creepy if I kept on coming in all the time. Also the next time I come in, I want to be even better then this time and I definitely will be as I'm learning from all these other amateur PUA's every week.
 
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