"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lost all of my plates! Need Encouragement/Advice

Jonblood

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I broke up with my girl 7 days ago and since then have gotten 5 plates. I was happy about being single again and was very excited but after I lost all of my plates, I became very upset, lonely and started missing my ex.

I need encouragement, please! and xanax...

Plate 1 - Girl I hooked up with at a party, never gonna call her again not a nice body.

Plate 2 - Very hot, asked if I was single flirted with her. Tried to set 2 dates flaked on both...NEXT.

Plate 3 - seemed really freindly, was soo goodlooking and we got along. Turns out she wont hang because she has a boyfriend.

Plate 4 - Blonde hottie I met at a party. Definitely flirted with each other but she has a boyfriend..who knows it's a maybe but I'm not hopeful.

Plate 5 - I know for a fact that she wants me but my roommate wants her and I don't know what to do about this.

I'm getting back into the game, reading and practicing as much as I can.

Anything you have to say, say it!

Thanks guys
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jonblood

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Oh yeah, plate 2 lives aboves me, cancels meetings with me because of homework and tells me to text to hang wih herr roommates. **** test?
 

crazyboy

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I thought plate were women you are actually screwing. But anyway players go through this time to time. You just go out and start all over again. Trust me i know its suck. You screwing every other day to every week then to maybe now once or twice month. Just got to get back out there rebuild yours roster
 

DonGorgon

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it happens man... hos only last a certain amount of time then they are gone cause hos have 1000000s of options so they move from man to man constantly and tend to get rid of guys they have Fed already ... it suck but we men have to always be trying to get new hos cause even the ones you think are there to stay will be gone eventually..lolool

females have it much easier cause men are always chasing them so they just have to say yes or no and thats all..
 
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Borknagar

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Yeah man, about 2 months ago I lost ALL my plates, took me a few weeks to get more, haha but got em.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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