Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Lost all of my plates! Need Encouragement/Advice

Jonblood

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I broke up with my girl 7 days ago and since then have gotten 5 plates. I was happy about being single again and was very excited but after I lost all of my plates, I became very upset, lonely and started missing my ex.

I need encouragement, please! and xanax...

Plate 1 - Girl I hooked up with at a party, never gonna call her again not a nice body.

Plate 2 - Very hot, asked if I was single flirted with her. Tried to set 2 dates flaked on both...NEXT.

Plate 3 - seemed really freindly, was soo goodlooking and we got along. Turns out she wont hang because she has a boyfriend.

Plate 4 - Blonde hottie I met at a party. Definitely flirted with each other but she has a boyfriend..who knows it's a maybe but I'm not hopeful.

Plate 5 - I know for a fact that she wants me but my roommate wants her and I don't know what to do about this.

I'm getting back into the game, reading and practicing as much as I can.

Anything you have to say, say it!

Thanks guys
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jonblood

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Oh yeah, plate 2 lives aboves me, cancels meetings with me because of homework and tells me to text to hang wih herr roommates. **** test?
 

crazyboy

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I thought plate were women you are actually screwing. But anyway players go through this time to time. You just go out and start all over again. Trust me i know its suck. You screwing every other day to every week then to maybe now once or twice month. Just got to get back out there rebuild yours roster
 

DonGorgon

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it happens man... hos only last a certain amount of time then they are gone cause hos have 1000000s of options so they move from man to man constantly and tend to get rid of guys they have Fed already ... it suck but we men have to always be trying to get new hos cause even the ones you think are there to stay will be gone eventually..lolool

females have it much easier cause men are always chasing them so they just have to say yes or no and thats all..
 
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Borknagar

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Yeah man, about 2 months ago I lost ALL my plates, took me a few weeks to get more, haha but got em.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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