The Duke
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Recently I’ve hung out at the home of a married couple I met thru a girl I’m dating. The couple lives in an upper class neighborhood in suburban America. The husband is beta, a little boring, nothing striking about his personality, very vanilla, and clueless when it comes to women. He thinks money will make his wife happy. He is a nice looking older guy but out of shape. He constantly puts his wife on a pedestal and she feels suffocated by it. He has recently taken a job out of state where is he is gone 2wks at a time.
The wife is very sweet, 12yrs younger than him. I am sure she was a major hottie in her prime. She is still attractive(HB7) for her age, but could drop 15lbs. This couple has been together close to 20yrs. The wife has never worked a day in her life. She came from money and has a large trust fund to live off of. Her daily duties are to raise their high school aged son and take care of the home.
To those on the outside, I’m sure this seems like the perfect situation. But guess what….the wife isn’t happy. I picked up on this the first time I met her. She verbalized small displeasures about her husband and was too “friendly” with me. She is a woman that is bored with her husband. She feels like she “married her dad”.
This woman is badly looking for some tingles to reignite her attraction and I’m afraid she will cheat on him before that happens. She continues to make up excuses of why she isn’t happy claiming she is overworked! Lol. She is more and more critical of her husband.
This weekend the husband was home for a few days and instead of his wife wanting to spend time with him, she scheduled a girls night out! The wife has also been going out with her friends and drinking more.
The husband has started to get upset by her actions, yet has no clue that she isn’t happy with him.
The wife has made it clear to everybody but him that her mind is having second thoughts. I’m certain this deal will fall apart at some point in the future as she continues to step out and do her own thing.
I share this story because I see a lot of guys in situations like this. I blame the wife for not communicating her issues but it seems to be female nature. I blame the husband for lacking experience when it comes to women. You have to remain a challenge and always “date” these girls if you expect to keep attraction. The husband has even stated he doesn’t have to worry about his wife. He is on auto-pilot.
I so wanted to tip him off about what is actually going on, but I’m certain he would hear none of it. He will have to crash and burn on his own. I wish he could stumble upon this forum and read some of the stories that get shared here before its too late.
The wife is very sweet, 12yrs younger than him. I am sure she was a major hottie in her prime. She is still attractive(HB7) for her age, but could drop 15lbs. This couple has been together close to 20yrs. The wife has never worked a day in her life. She came from money and has a large trust fund to live off of. Her daily duties are to raise their high school aged son and take care of the home.
To those on the outside, I’m sure this seems like the perfect situation. But guess what….the wife isn’t happy. I picked up on this the first time I met her. She verbalized small displeasures about her husband and was too “friendly” with me. She is a woman that is bored with her husband. She feels like she “married her dad”.
This woman is badly looking for some tingles to reignite her attraction and I’m afraid she will cheat on him before that happens. She continues to make up excuses of why she isn’t happy claiming she is overworked! Lol. She is more and more critical of her husband.
This weekend the husband was home for a few days and instead of his wife wanting to spend time with him, she scheduled a girls night out! The wife has also been going out with her friends and drinking more.
The husband has started to get upset by her actions, yet has no clue that she isn’t happy with him.
The wife has made it clear to everybody but him that her mind is having second thoughts. I’m certain this deal will fall apart at some point in the future as she continues to step out and do her own thing.
I share this story because I see a lot of guys in situations like this. I blame the wife for not communicating her issues but it seems to be female nature. I blame the husband for lacking experience when it comes to women. You have to remain a challenge and always “date” these girls if you expect to keep attraction. The husband has even stated he doesn’t have to worry about his wife. He is on auto-pilot.
I so wanted to tip him off about what is actually going on, but I’m certain he would hear none of it. He will have to crash and burn on his own. I wish he could stumble upon this forum and read some of the stories that get shared here before its too late.
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