"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ok, overall, I'm confident about this. She wants it no doubt, so its sure to happen. I know where stuff goes and all, I'm not stupid. I've even read different tips and such, so I think I'll have an advantage. So here's the deal:

She's pretty experienced, and I admit, its a little intimidating. She's told me many times about the various.... uh..... moves, she's going to use on me :whistle: . I don't wanna blow it in a few minutes, know what I mean? I was thinking, maybe I can rub one out an hour or so beforehand, and I'd last longer for the main event. Is this a good idea?

Also, any other advice for the first time or sex in general would be great.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Crack one off before you see her - you'll deffo last longer!
 

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When I lost my virginity, I was with a real sweet girl. Every now and then she would whisper to me "No expectations" because that tension isn't wanted or needed in the bedroom.
 

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Shezz said:
Man, don't worry about lasting two minutes. If she's experienced, chances are she's got a pvssy like a Wizards sleeve, you'll be banging her for hours.

Good luck

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Lol, Borat.

Thanks man. Keep it coming guys! I've only got a matter of hours.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Tell her right away. "I am a one pump chump, but ill be ready to go for a 2nd round within 2 minutes of the first"

:)
 

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Wait wha?

People were taking advice from a virgin?
 

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lol what's the stars say?

lol this forum is hilarious.
 

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Bvbidd said:
Wait wha?

People were taking advice from a virgin?
Were, are, and will be. At least for a few more hours. ^_^

So what? I've never given people advice on sex. I still know my stuff bro!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'll give ya that. I've seen your posts your on the right track and after tonight your only gonna be one behind me. lol Who am I to talk?
 

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by posting on this forum it is clear you are NOT ready my friend, I don't mean to insult but you will know when the time is right, it's a feeling you will get, don't rush it, get to know eachother first by lots of foreplay, you'll regret it if you go to fast too soon because the anticipation ceases after you have full intercourse.

just enjoy eachother in other ways ;)
 

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Labourer said:
by posting on this forum it is clear you are NOT ready my friend, I don't mean to insult but you will know when the time is right, it's a feeling you will get, don't rush it, get to know eachother first by lots of foreplay, you'll regret it if you go to fast too soon because the anticipation ceases after you have full intercourse.

just enjoy eachother in other ways ;)
Oh man, no problems there. I plan to taste, tease, and tickle her for a long while. I like foreplay! Its so hot when you just turn a girl on to the point where her legs are going crazy wrapping around you, and she's pulling your hair and moaning. I wanna make her lose control. :up:

Oh, and Bvbidd, thanks man! But what do you mean by "one behind me"?
 

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dont let her be in control, or else u wont be able to control how fast u finish.....if U are in control, then U will be able to control whether ur done in 2 minutes or 45 minutes.....btw if u fvck her for 15+ minutes, thats deff good

also, does she KNOW that u are a virgin?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Badmannaz said:
i remember when i lost my virginity...she was waaay older than me and i was f*ckin her just like they do in porn...i was like "YAAAAY" but then she got so tired i put her ass to sleep!!!
LOL
 

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First time I lost it I lasted for two hours. Maybe it was because I was drunk, maybe it was because we had Harry Potter on in the background. Do your thing. Be in control. Women like that. And slap that a$$, a lot of girls love it. Don't forget the SHOCKER!
 

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I'm a new man!

So yea, obviously, I succeeded. I lost my innocence. Darn. ^_^

You always hear about how the first time always sucks, or how its supposed to be akward, and that you shouldn't worry so much about your performance since you have no experience. Well, fvck that! I was the KING!

It was about 2 hours I'm guessing, since we kinda unplugged the clock in all of the excitement. Maybe longer. :D Started with some kissing, the usual. Bit her neck which really drove her crazy. Wasn't long before clothes starting flying off. Then I fingered her, my first time ever doing it. Between the moaning and the comments of "Omg it feels so good", I think I may have a natural talent. ;) She stopped me just short of her cumming, saying "Wow, we're gonna have to do that again later." :up:

So then it was my turn, and I got a fantastic BJ. Damn, she's good. That went on for awhile, and then it was the main event. I was on top, and I rocked her world. She came twice. Yeah, my first time, and I gave her multiple orgasms. I'm pretty proud of that! :rockon:

Oh, I did rub one out beforehand, and its true. I lasted the whole time. In fact, I didn't cvm at all. I guess that would be my only complaint, but I don't mind. I thoroughly enjoyed every second of it.

So there you have it. I blew all of those "first-time" myths out of the water, and I made that ass mine! Now where do I turn in my V-card?
 

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Right on man.

Grats to ya.

*pound*
 

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Exp said:
Congrats man!

How long before the main event did you bust a nut?

p.s. how old are you and why were you a virgin for so long?
I didn't cvm, didn't you read it?

I'm 18. That's not that long.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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