"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Losing my drive...

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I'm tired, highly strung, and I need help.

Admittedly I've just had a very hectic week, but I've lost weight and I've looked like death. Some ugly bird came up to me yesterday and and asked why I always look so down. I dislike talking to ugly girls, but she had a point. Ughhhhh I need help...

Does anyone have any little tips or tricks to keep me feeling fresh and awake? I get back home at 6:00 every night and have to be out my house by 7:00 in the morning. I'm eating a lot as I'm trying to put on weight. I weight lift 3 times a week. I don't smoke (anymore), drink fizzy drinks, but my weekends tend to be hectic. I don't go out midweek, for obvious reasons.

I'm thinking about making a concious effort to not only eat more, but also eat better- try to totally get rid of the chocolate and sweets in my diet. I don't eat a lot of trash, but I snack.

I take protein and creatine, but I was wondering if anyone knows and affordable supplements that will give me some get up and go. I'm understanding just dosing myself up with lots of coffee will not sort me out?:rolleyes:

Anyway, please throw some ideas my way. It is ruining my game.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Can you not just take a day out to relax? seems like you need some "me" time.
 

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I can't just take a day out whenever I feel a bit tired, I kinda need advice to stop me knackering myself out in the first place. I agree though, and today I've had a chilled day, mostly eating and mooching. I still need some ideas though...
 

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Do you have a gaming system, like a PS2 or something? Try popping in a game or two when you get home and just play for a bit to "unwind" first. If you shower in the morning, finish it with a quick cold blast. That'll wake you up! Try setting your alarm a bit earlier, so that you can have a few minutes of "waking up" time, where you can just mentally prepare yourself to get up.

If these fail to work, then just try finding times when you can just take a 5-10 minute break, even if you are driving somewhere, just put on some music you like and sing with it if you want.
 

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Firstly: if you're an ahtlete, STOP TAKING CREATINE!

I used it for football. Used it for a month, I was happy with the results, then conditioning started. After three 40 yard sprints, I was sweating more than I ever thought possible, I felt like I was gonna die.

Excessive water loss can result in strange things. An unhealthy body always equals an unhealthy mind. Keep taking the protein, but stay away from the creatine, it's bad for you, and long term effects are unknown.

I like the video game idea. It works for me.

The song "Thugz Mansion" by 2Pac (THE ACOUSTIC VERSION! THE REMIX WITH A BEAT SUCKS ASS!) always always calms me down. I like to sing along to it, and it always makes me feel better.

Also when I'm stressed, I like to play guitar for like 10 minutes, and even though I suck, it sparks something that makes me feel better.

Have fun dude! You need force yourself to calm down. You don't always need to do something! I have that mentality that it needs to get done NOW, but I never do it, so I always stress. Just take it easy man, and download that song!

Be sure to drink lots of water and smile lots, it helps.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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stay away from the junk food, its a bad habit and can become a mental addiction (watch supersize me if you dont believe me)

also, a terrific and proven way to help you wake up in the morning is to eat fruit ONLY for breakfast. its easy to digest and the sugar gives you a boost. eating things like granola or eggs take more energy to digest, leaving you spent
 

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Do not snack (except fruits) and do NOT drink too much coffee. Try to use your spare time as good as possible. I mean quality not quantity. Eat or cook sth. you really like.Watch comedy. Meet with friends etc. If you are very stressed out do not masturbate too much,because it does take some energy and you will be more tired in the morning.

Generally slow down as much as possible and go for quality rather than quantity.
 
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