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icallug

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yeah lately ive noticed that my girl hasnt been interested in me. whenever we do something she pushes me away, and she makes excuses not to fool around. she also talks about this other guy a lot on how hot he is, but i just counter that with comments about another girl and she shuts up. is there something i could do to get her interest back up. what do you guys suggest?


btw its also that time of the month for her so mabye it has something to do with that????
 

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well she coulda been messing with you about how "hot" the other guy is to mess with you and when you brought the girl up she mighta got mad so now she pushes you away...

Just becuase its her period doesnt make her any less horny I know my gf is horny bout that time. Just maybe if your trying to do somthin with her down there she might feel weird about becuase well you know...
 

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Why does my girlfriend push me off whenever I try to get physical? Why does she constantly talk about how awesome and hot another guy is, almost as if she likes him? Why doesn't she want to spend time with me?

Imagine that I'm the one asking these questions. What advice would you give me?
 

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Why does my girlfriend push me off whenever I try to get physical? Why does she constantly talk about how awesome and hot another guy is, almost as if she likes him? Why doesn't she want to spend time with me?

Listen to what Porky said, but all those indications are signs of a low interest level or her playing games with you. Watch where you go and you can always find another.
 
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