"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yeah lately ive noticed that my girl hasnt been interested in me. whenever we do something she pushes me away, and she makes excuses not to fool around. she also talks about this other guy a lot on how hot he is, but i just counter that with comments about another girl and she shuts up. is there something i could do to get her interest back up. what do you guys suggest?


btw its also that time of the month for her so mabye it has something to do with that????
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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well she coulda been messing with you about how "hot" the other guy is to mess with you and when you brought the girl up she mighta got mad so now she pushes you away...

Just becuase its her period doesnt make her any less horny I know my gf is horny bout that time. Just maybe if your trying to do somthin with her down there she might feel weird about becuase well you know...
 
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Why does my girlfriend push me off whenever I try to get physical? Why does she constantly talk about how awesome and hot another guy is, almost as if she likes him? Why doesn't she want to spend time with me?

Imagine that I'm the one asking these questions. What advice would you give me?
 
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Why does my girlfriend push me off whenever I try to get physical? Why does she constantly talk about how awesome and hot another guy is, almost as if she likes him? Why doesn't she want to spend time with me?

Listen to what Porky said, but all those indications are signs of a low interest level or her playing games with you. Watch where you go and you can always find another.
 
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