Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Losing interest in life

Olivia

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Anyone got the same issue here. After understanding game, the relationships with friends, family, employers, school mates seems empty..
Life seems empty.. Right now I feel like traveling around the world.. Like that seems to be the only interesting thing left. No relationship has any attraction for me anymore. I guess I will live with puppys from now on :woo:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Cant say I do. If anything its made my relationships stronger.

In any case id say fuk the relationships with everyone then, and try to figure out what drives you in life. Think career wise and hobby wise and just own the sh1t out of them. For me...i have one semester left of school to become a personal trainer and my hobbies include poker, golf, sports, country music. These things absolutely make me happy and you need to find things that do this for you. Sure, golf and sports can be frustrating when you lose....but the competition i feel is necessary for men.

So here is an example of a recent Saturday:

-Wakeup
-Study my ACSM materials(Personal Trainer Certification Test)
-Study/Play Poker
-Go to the gym
-Go tailgate for a country concert(finds HB to hook up with and slams it)
-Bed

So you see im doing stuff all day that i thoroughly enjoy. Game doesnt even really come into play until late in the day when i start drinking, but even then its presence is minimal because i have internalized knowledge ive learned, so its just second nature now. I dont go to the concert "looking to hookup", but im a social guy and when everyone drinks....everyone is friendly. One thing leads to another and bam.

So you see the emphasis is on MY LIFE and MY INTERESTS. Not game and not women. Find those things and start enjoying life again.
 

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Been there to....slowly crawling out of it and am beginning to find myself, which is been pretty fun, and its only the tip of the iceberg for me. My hobbies include sports and poker to. I am trying to get in to making music as a way of self enjoyment fullfillment and a way to bring the best out of myself
 

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I guess I will live with puppys from now on
What happen when the puppies grow up?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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TheException said:
Cant say I do. If anything its made my relationships stronger.

In any case id say fuk the relationships with everyone then, and try to figure out what drives you in life. Think career wise and hobby wise and just own the sh1t out of them. For me...i have one semester left of school to become a personal trainer and my hobbies include poker, golf, sports, country music. These things absolutely make me happy and you need to find things that do this for you. Sure, golf and sports can be frustrating when you lose....but the competition i feel is necessary for men.
This^

Like i said, find your passion and you'll be fine. Just because you understand something doesn't mean you completely own it by the way. You have members that understand game as well and they are still posting about girls that they're confused about.

There's a lot to life, including mystery.
 
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