"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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.her mom died last year first christmas without her mom.she became withdrawn i under stand.she gained a coulpe pounds now she dosent want to be intimate any more.usually its drunk sex or drug sex.we both need money she says she is single minded and focused on work and wont talk about us.she likes to party.coc.. i said i have to quit its ruining my life.at one time she chased me now im chasing her.Last weekend we said drugs are killing us now she is pushing me to party.i feel i have to to keep her.i am deep on her.but something tells me to say bye.how can i turn this around
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Losing her? More like loosing your life to me...

Seriously... I'm not going to bother much since I dont think an anonymous voice on the internet is going to have much influence on you but....

1-) LEAVE HER. Yes you are better off!!!

2-) Fix your life. No drugs, alcohol and unhealthy habits. Work out and eat right.

3-) Financial problems? Go get an education or find a job to dedicate yourself to.
 

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i know she loves me/but i became her conquest.now she takes me for granted.it was great.now its like she takes takes but does not give at allhow can i turn this around
 
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