"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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.her mom died last year first christmas without her mom.she became withdrawn i under stand.she gained a coulpe pounds now she dosent want to be intimate any more.usually its drunk sex or drug sex.we both need money she says she is single minded and focused on work and wont talk about us.she likes to party.coc.. i said i have to quit its ruining my life.at one time she chased me now im chasing her.Last weekend we said drugs are killing us now she is pushing me to party.i feel i have to to keep her.i am deep on her.but something tells me to say bye.how can i turn this around
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Losing her? More like loosing your life to me...

Seriously... I'm not going to bother much since I dont think an anonymous voice on the internet is going to have much influence on you but....

1-) LEAVE HER. Yes you are better off!!!

2-) Fix your life. No drugs, alcohol and unhealthy habits. Work out and eat right.

3-) Financial problems? Go get an education or find a job to dedicate yourself to.
 
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i know she loves me/but i became her conquest.now she takes me for granted.it was great.now its like she takes takes but does not give at allhow can i turn this around
 
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