"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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.her mom died last year first christmas without her mom.she became withdrawn i under stand.she gained a coulpe pounds now she dosent want to be intimate any more.usually its drunk sex or drug sex.we both need money she says she is single minded and focused on work and wont talk about us.she likes to party.coc.. i said i have to quit its ruining my life.at one time she chased me now im chasing her.Last weekend we said drugs are killing us now she is pushing me to party.i feel i have to to keep her.i am deep on her.but something tells me to say bye.how can i turn this around
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Losing her? More like loosing your life to me...

Seriously... I'm not going to bother much since I dont think an anonymous voice on the internet is going to have much influence on you but....

1-) LEAVE HER. Yes you are better off!!!

2-) Fix your life. No drugs, alcohol and unhealthy habits. Work out and eat right.

3-) Financial problems? Go get an education or find a job to dedicate yourself to.
 

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i know she loves me/but i became her conquest.now she takes me for granted.it was great.now its like she takes takes but does not give at allhow can i turn this around
 
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