"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Losing Frame in Relationship

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Is the best way to gain back my frame to stay distant and care less about her?

I have lost my frame, and became too nice/too available. I stopped my self improvement. I noticed she is contacting me less...and it is making me nervous. Really bringing out my insecurities.

Now I am setting up to improve myself so that this never happens again.

How can I recover after this? I think she doesn't see me as a challenge any more now that she "has" me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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just play women game , when she has some what she show less ,call less , care less , just do like that
 
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How long have you been together?

I started to lose the frame with a girl I've posted about a couple times. Started smashing in May...

The last three days her behavior was wack, really the last 45 days, but whatever. I'd say 10 days ago, I really started distancing and not texting, ever. No calling really, etc. So, here she comes again- texting, being sweet, etc. So dumb.

Anyway, this weekend, she showed up at my house and was drinking with my roommate while i was out on Thurs, left super fast, late at night the last two nights to "console her sister" over some high school drama.Oh, and not fvcking me for the last week. She's almost 25. So, last night I dumped her on her ass- right on the spot. You should try it. You def regain the frame. Although, she may not care. If she doesn't care, its for the best anyway. Win-win. So many pretty babies out there!

If you love her, are in love with her or have a oneitis situ, that could be harder.
 
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