Purefilth
Master Don Juan
must be supersperms, altering genetic structure!betheman said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Losing all respect.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
When a man injects his "essence" into a woman's body, she absorbs it. There is also an emotional tranference that does no go away.
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Atom Smasher said:
I'm curious about where you learn this from, I read a website a long time ago, when it speaks about losing your essence and your strong spirit when you masterbate and lose your sperm.
It gave examples in the animal kingdom for instance, that they make sure roosters never have sex until a certain age so they will produce good strong chicks with hens. Roosters who do have sex with hens before their time end up getting killed by roosters who never had sex.
It give examples of boxers not having sex or masterbating because it made them quicker and punches harder in the ring.
It said that when your sperm leave your body (if not inside a woman) you will become weaker spiritually, physically, and mentally.
So I'm curious to where you learn this because it sounds interesting.
That's like worrying about microbes. But such things can be normalized out of existence.Atom Smasher said:
Men have 3 types of sperm: egg-seeking sperm, wall-building sperm (to block other men's sperm) and sperm-to-sperm battle sperm. As form follows function, these things evolved out of necessity (Our sperm are a microcosm of the dating scene). Obviously women have always been promiscuous. They are like cats in heat to some degree. Don't take it personally. Use it to your advantage. They are only a slvt if they sleep with other men and not you, remember?
The myth is that they should be these monogamous beings. That's only for the first 30 days after their first orgasm with you.
I'm not sure my feelings change much after I bang a girl. Then again I don't really "respect" women or people in general, so there's nothing to lose in the first place. However, I try to treat everyone with courtesy and respect no matter what I feel toward them, unless they royally piss me off.
Plus, I do feel it's important to treat women well after they bang me so they don't associate bad feelings with sex. That's one reason women have such anti-slut defense mechanisms -- they hear of guys treating their slutty friends badly and so they clamp their legs shut. If guys treated sluts well, there'd be a whole lot more of them and we'd all be getting laid a whole lot easier.
Also, there's a certain subset of men who, deep inside, loathe themselves. So when a woman accepts him and has sex with him, he transfers that self-loathing onto her. Basically he says, "I'm a piece of sh*t, and if you slept with me then you're a piece of sh*t too." Often a man's feelings toward a woman after sex say more about what he thinks of himself than what he thinks of her.
Plus, I do feel it's important to treat women well after they bang me so they don't associate bad feelings with sex. That's one reason women have such anti-slut defense mechanisms -- they hear of guys treating their slutty friends badly and so they clamp their legs shut. If guys treated sluts well, there'd be a whole lot more of them and we'd all be getting laid a whole lot easier.
Also, there's a certain subset of men who, deep inside, loathe themselves. So when a woman accepts him and has sex with him, he transfers that self-loathing onto her. Basically he says, "I'm a piece of sh*t, and if you slept with me then you're a piece of sh*t too." Often a man's feelings toward a woman after sex say more about what he thinks of himself than what he thinks of her.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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So a girl who wants to have sex with you is good behavior?bradd80 said:
^^^ Is that a trick question? 
Actually I'd say that girl who not only wants to but DOES have sex with you, without expecting you to spend too much money or go to too much trouble... THAT is good behavior. And it should be reinforced through a reward system.
Actually I'd say that girl who not only wants to but DOES have sex with you, without expecting you to spend too much money or go to too much trouble... THAT is good behavior. And it should be reinforced through a reward system.
i don't lose respect after straight sex...that is just silly...but if she let's me *** her face or breasts after only meeting her once or twice, then yes i do lose a little respect because that is not how my ideal woman would act with a stranger....in fact, my ideal woman wouldn't want that in the first place, on the face that is...doesn't mean i don't like her any less as a person....i just see her less as long term relationship material......