Purefilth
Master Don Juan
must be supersperms, altering genetic structure!betheman said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Losing all respect.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
When a man injects his "essence" into a woman's body, she absorbs it. There is also an emotional tranference that does no go away.
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Atom Smasher said:
I'm curious about where you learn this from, I read a website a long time ago, when it speaks about losing your essence and your strong spirit when you masterbate and lose your sperm.
It gave examples in the animal kingdom for instance, that they make sure roosters never have sex until a certain age so they will produce good strong chicks with hens. Roosters who do have sex with hens before their time end up getting killed by roosters who never had sex.
It give examples of boxers not having sex or masterbating because it made them quicker and punches harder in the ring.
It said that when your sperm leave your body (if not inside a woman) you will become weaker spiritually, physically, and mentally.
So I'm curious to where you learn this because it sounds interesting.
That's like worrying about microbes. But such things can be normalized out of existence.Atom Smasher said:
Men have 3 types of sperm: egg-seeking sperm, wall-building sperm (to block other men's sperm) and sperm-to-sperm battle sperm. As form follows function, these things evolved out of necessity (Our sperm are a microcosm of the dating scene). Obviously women have always been promiscuous. They are like cats in heat to some degree. Don't take it personally. Use it to your advantage. They are only a slvt if they sleep with other men and not you, remember?
The myth is that they should be these monogamous beings. That's only for the first 30 days after their first orgasm with you.
I'm not sure my feelings change much after I bang a girl. Then again I don't really "respect" women or people in general, so there's nothing to lose in the first place. However, I try to treat everyone with courtesy and respect no matter what I feel toward them, unless they royally piss me off.
Plus, I do feel it's important to treat women well after they bang me so they don't associate bad feelings with sex. That's one reason women have such anti-slut defense mechanisms -- they hear of guys treating their slutty friends badly and so they clamp their legs shut. If guys treated sluts well, there'd be a whole lot more of them and we'd all be getting laid a whole lot easier.
Also, there's a certain subset of men who, deep inside, loathe themselves. So when a woman accepts him and has sex with him, he transfers that self-loathing onto her. Basically he says, "I'm a piece of sh*t, and if you slept with me then you're a piece of sh*t too." Often a man's feelings toward a woman after sex say more about what he thinks of himself than what he thinks of her.
Plus, I do feel it's important to treat women well after they bang me so they don't associate bad feelings with sex. That's one reason women have such anti-slut defense mechanisms -- they hear of guys treating their slutty friends badly and so they clamp their legs shut. If guys treated sluts well, there'd be a whole lot more of them and we'd all be getting laid a whole lot easier.
Also, there's a certain subset of men who, deep inside, loathe themselves. So when a woman accepts him and has sex with him, he transfers that self-loathing onto her. Basically he says, "I'm a piece of sh*t, and if you slept with me then you're a piece of sh*t too." Often a man's feelings toward a woman after sex say more about what he thinks of himself than what he thinks of her.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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So a girl who wants to have sex with you is good behavior?bradd80 said:
^^^ Is that a trick question? 
Actually I'd say that girl who not only wants to but DOES have sex with you, without expecting you to spend too much money or go to too much trouble... THAT is good behavior. And it should be reinforced through a reward system.
Actually I'd say that girl who not only wants to but DOES have sex with you, without expecting you to spend too much money or go to too much trouble... THAT is good behavior. And it should be reinforced through a reward system.
i don't lose respect after straight sex...that is just silly...but if she let's me *** her face or breasts after only meeting her once or twice, then yes i do lose a little respect because that is not how my ideal woman would act with a stranger....in fact, my ideal woman wouldn't want that in the first place, on the face that is...doesn't mean i don't like her any less as a person....i just see her less as long term relationship material......