"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Losing 40 lb

Fzatf

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I'm about 40 lb overweight and want to lose the weight without losing too much muscle mass. I can do cardio while reducing how much I eat. The tough part for me is cutting out things like pizza out of my diet. Is it possible to try something like intermittent fasting and cutting calories while still keeping some if the junk?

Ultimately I would rather lose the weight so if I have to cut the junk I will, but if intermittent fasting and caloric deficit is enough please let me know.

The other question I had was in regard to not losing too much muscle mass. Will weight training curb some if the muscle loss that occurs?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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mrgoodstuff

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I'm about 40 lb overweight and want to lose the weight without losing too much muscle mass. I can do cardio while reducing how much I eat. The tough part for me is cutting out things like pizza out of my diet. Is it possible to try something like intermittent fasting and cutting calories while still keeping some if the junk?

Ultimately I would rather lose the weight so if I have to cut the junk I will, but if intermittent fasting and caloric deficit is enough please let me know.

The other question I had was in regard to not losing too much muscle mass. Will weight training curb some if the muscle loss that occurs?
Drop carbs to 150 or under. Do 30 min of cardio a day. 3-5 days of weights to keep muscle. You'll drop 2-3 lbs a week.
 

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Do you have the control to not overeat pizza? i doubt it. drop that crap and eat healthy. Yes, you can eat pizza every single day and lose weight, you are also going to feel terrible. Eat foods that are going not only meet your MACRO goals but also your MICRO goals. fruits, veges, nuts, fish, lean meats. These will do wonders for your energy while you are trying to cut. My little brother was actually a bodybuilder and he would cut on mcdonalds and taco bell. But, he hated eating food and to meet his macro goals that's what he did. For most of us we are not that lucky. Make better food choices with some self control, good luck.
 
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