"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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losing 22kg in 3 months

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i wanna be ripped in 3 months time. i'm currently 97kg at 178cm. i wanna get down to 75kg.

I'm currently gyming 6 times a week working out for 30-45 mins each day. working 1 bodypart each day of the week.
I am going to add walking 1 hour a day.

I currently eat less than 1500 calories a day but more than 1300.

about 30g of carbs, 80g fat and 150-160g of protein.

Should I do fasting as well? Or walk another 1 hour.
I drink about 3 litres of water a day as well.

I plan to go back to eating at least 150g of carbs afterwards. sodium intake is at 1000mg as well.

there's a bit of a pic of my frame.

I've seen some gains in just a couple of weeks of training and people think I have lost weight but I'm still 97kg. I haven't been eating that strict though eating subway sandwitches which i need to cut out. I don't want to lose too much muscle in the next 3 months and just get leaner before i go on a bulk in the new year.
 

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You should refrain from posting pics of yourself, the internet is forever.
 

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You’re better off bulking first. The new muscle makes it easier to cut. Do a clean bulk. Just eat as much good protein rich food as you can and lift heavy.

After your strength base is established add it more cardio and dump carbs.
 

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You’re better off bulking first. The new muscle makes it easier to cut. Do a clean bulk. Just eat as much good protein rich food as you can and lift heavy.

After your strength base is established add it more cardio and dump carbs.
Ok I will do this.

Doing

Meal 1

2 cups of oatmeal
3 scrambled eggs
250ml of trim milk

Meal 2

70g brown rice
tin of sardines
30g lentils
100g of mixed veg

Meal 3

70g brown rice
150 chicken breast
100g of brocolli

Meal 4

70g brown rice
150g chicken breast
100g brocolli
30g lentils

Meal 5

1 apple
2 tablespoons of peanut butter
2 tablespoons of extra virgin olive oil.

About 3200 calories. 340g carbs, 100g of fat, 210g of protein.

I will do 1 hour of walking a day plus the lifting. I will also switch some of the chicken meals with a 150g rump steak 2-3 times a week.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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