"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lose your fears/insecurities by learning theirs

Royal Elite

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To take your game to the next level stop worrying about manly insecurities and fears and lean theirs. Once you do this you will learn the power most males possess that they dont realise they have.

How do you do that? I go to the cites dedicated to them the read the problems and questions they ask just like the ones newbies come here and ask! You'll be surprised in the real world what women will actually let you get away with!

http://www.loveforum.net/t9950-lying-and-dating.html
http://www.loveforum.net/t9915-he-still-lives-with-his-ex.html
http://www.loveforum.net/t9941-relationship-routine.html

ps. Anyone who finds any other good ones post them!

I had to add this one it's funny as hell, since most of you think you mind is racing when you are with a woman chick out what's going through theirs!
http://www.loveforum.net/t9847-should-i-make-the-first-move.html
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WAHAHAHAHA...

OMG dude...

If some chicks were guys, they would be SOOO WBAFC it's not even funny...
 

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hey thats sneaky, ime gonna do it!!!!

reveal some good girly websites so that i can have a look!!!
 

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Always know your 'enemy' ;)

Anyway, using others' insecurities to control them is a girly thing ... not what real men would do.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by catch
hey thats sneaky, ime gonna do it!!!!

reveal some good girly websites so that i can have a look!!!
.:woo:
 

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most people are insecure because they feel that the next person is not, this helps you realize that it's not just you. It's empowering!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lol... feeding on the insecurities of others... now that's a dreadful thought... makes me think of a vampire...
 
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