This happened/happens to me a lot unless I 'm really attracted to the girl. The "counter-intuitive" thing is this raises interest like crazy and usually they'll come and throw themselves at me a week or so later. Weird. Or so I used to think...
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Lose interest in girls after sleeping with them
- Thread starter Matt Rogers
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Strip Club Inspector
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Luke, first of all, go spend some money on *****s. They can be fun.
Second, it is baffling for those of us who get laid from time to time to get what we thought we wanted but still seem unsatisfied. It's one of the great mysteries of life.
Three, in our pixilated age, many of us have lost a sense of the danger, the passion, the wonder of sex with someone that we are attracted to. This must be even worse for younger guys, jacking off every night in their college dorm rooms. I like porn. I like women. I like chick friends. I like **** buddies. I like girlfriends I've had (and loved) in the past. I like the way they smell, look, taste, etc. I like the way they holler when you do them right, or the way they share their deepest desires and secrets late at night after an evening of screwing. Just go out and get this and savor it. If you can't, I do think cutting out the porn (or at least rationing it) is key.
Second, it is baffling for those of us who get laid from time to time to get what we thought we wanted but still seem unsatisfied. It's one of the great mysteries of life.
Three, in our pixilated age, many of us have lost a sense of the danger, the passion, the wonder of sex with someone that we are attracted to. This must be even worse for younger guys, jacking off every night in their college dorm rooms. I like porn. I like women. I like chick friends. I like **** buddies. I like girlfriends I've had (and loved) in the past. I like the way they smell, look, taste, etc. I like the way they holler when you do them right, or the way they share their deepest desires and secrets late at night after an evening of screwing. Just go out and get this and savor it. If you can't, I do think cutting out the porn (or at least rationing it) is key.
Last Man Standing
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Never compromise with corrupt behavior - ill behavior precludes all negotiations!!L777 said:Lol, man I love your style, so uncompromising.
At 44 though, I thought you might have grown out of referring to the female of the species as "hors"...
To be fair though...most (but not all) of them are.
At 44, I am quite adept of recognizing the hor condition and as you have stated, it is "most" women, more specifically over 99% of the female species who are not married in the USA, excluding little children who have yet to walk!!
Tsk, Tsk, "just sex", it is much more than that -- ASK ANY WOMAN!!!!!! You must be young kid, if not in age then in understanding!!azanon said:
Quit loving hors and start loving women!!!!