This happened/happens to me a lot unless I 'm really attracted to the girl. The "counter-intuitive" thing is this raises interest like crazy and usually they'll come and throw themselves at me a week or so later. Weird. Or so I used to think...
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Lose interest in girls after sleeping with them
- Thread starter Matt Rogers
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Strip Club Inspector
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Luke, first of all, go spend some money on *****s. They can be fun.
Second, it is baffling for those of us who get laid from time to time to get what we thought we wanted but still seem unsatisfied. It's one of the great mysteries of life.
Three, in our pixilated age, many of us have lost a sense of the danger, the passion, the wonder of sex with someone that we are attracted to. This must be even worse for younger guys, jacking off every night in their college dorm rooms. I like porn. I like women. I like chick friends. I like **** buddies. I like girlfriends I've had (and loved) in the past. I like the way they smell, look, taste, etc. I like the way they holler when you do them right, or the way they share their deepest desires and secrets late at night after an evening of screwing. Just go out and get this and savor it. If you can't, I do think cutting out the porn (or at least rationing it) is key.
Second, it is baffling for those of us who get laid from time to time to get what we thought we wanted but still seem unsatisfied. It's one of the great mysteries of life.
Three, in our pixilated age, many of us have lost a sense of the danger, the passion, the wonder of sex with someone that we are attracted to. This must be even worse for younger guys, jacking off every night in their college dorm rooms. I like porn. I like women. I like chick friends. I like **** buddies. I like girlfriends I've had (and loved) in the past. I like the way they smell, look, taste, etc. I like the way they holler when you do them right, or the way they share their deepest desires and secrets late at night after an evening of screwing. Just go out and get this and savor it. If you can't, I do think cutting out the porn (or at least rationing it) is key.
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Never compromise with corrupt behavior - ill behavior precludes all negotiations!!L777 said:Lol, man I love your style, so uncompromising.
At 44 though, I thought you might have grown out of referring to the female of the species as "hors"...
To be fair though...most (but not all) of them are.
At 44, I am quite adept of recognizing the hor condition and as you have stated, it is "most" women, more specifically over 99% of the female species who are not married in the USA, excluding little children who have yet to walk!!
Tsk, Tsk, "just sex", it is much more than that -- ASK ANY WOMAN!!!!!! You must be young kid, if not in age then in understanding!!azanon said:
Quit loving hors and start loving women!!!!