"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Anyone here been to or live in L.A.? Im from there and I was wondering where are some of the best places you all would recommend to holla at the ladies here.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sure, email [email protected] and join a list of about 350 others that meet in real life and wing...plus, there are monthly meetings at the Project Hollywood Mansion, where wings meet to discuss wing tactics and picking up chicks with guest speakers coming regularly.
 

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If you, Lola, or any others want to meet wings, join us at PLAY:

Hey Guys,

We are having our next PLAY Meeting at the Project Hollywood Mansion
on October 31st, Halloween, at noon (12pm). The Project Hollywood
Mansion Operations Director and Executive Coach for Real Social
Dynamics, Geoff, will be giving a special presentation.

Geoff is a former Trainer of the Tony Robbins trainers and you can
read more about him at:

http://www.realsocialdynamics.com/instructors.asp

Please bring a lunch or wait til after the meeting ends at 2pm to
join the rest of the members for lunch at Mel's Diner.

If you attend the meeting, please park at the Sunset Plaza as there
will not be parking available in front of the mansion. The Project
Hollywood Mansion is located at 1317 Londonderry Place.

Cheers,

Nick "Papa" Kho
310-652-0137
 
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