"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Anyone here been to or live in L.A.? Im from there and I was wondering where are some of the best places you all would recommend to holla at the ladies here.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sure, email [email protected] and join a list of about 350 others that meet in real life and wing...plus, there are monthly meetings at the Project Hollywood Mansion, where wings meet to discuss wing tactics and picking up chicks with guest speakers coming regularly.
 

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If you, Lola, or any others want to meet wings, join us at PLAY:

Hey Guys,

We are having our next PLAY Meeting at the Project Hollywood Mansion
on October 31st, Halloween, at noon (12pm). The Project Hollywood
Mansion Operations Director and Executive Coach for Real Social
Dynamics, Geoff, will be giving a special presentation.

Geoff is a former Trainer of the Tony Robbins trainers and you can
read more about him at:

http://www.realsocialdynamics.com/instructors.asp

Please bring a lunch or wait til after the meeting ends at 2pm to
join the rest of the members for lunch at Mel's Diner.

If you attend the meeting, please park at the Sunset Plaza as there
will not be parking available in front of the mansion. The Project
Hollywood Mansion is located at 1317 Londonderry Place.

Cheers,

Nick "Papa" Kho
310-652-0137
 
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