"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Los Angeles!!! Djs!!!

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Yeah, it was good mate. The actual BC is kinda pricey but we get discounts. We were taught an opener on the spot and the reasoning behind every word, BL movement and your positioning top notch! Talked about the guts of day game and every guy's SP and Grungey's solutions to em. What was meant to be 30mins-1hour ended up being 2/3hours. I think. Grungey really does know his day game.

Meet a few LA PUAs that are well known in the community. Got a few numbers. Good networking.

Next step for me is to meet up with these guys and sarge. Probably this weekend. 8/9/10th.

(This was a direct day game seminar, very efficient, no BS. I like it, might have to change my style for daytime from VA now. Quiet the learning curve)


Overall: 8/10
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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RBB said:
Yeah, it was good mate. The actual BC is kinda pricey but we get discounts. We were taught an opener on the spot and the reasoning behind every word, BL movement and your positioning top notch! Talked about the guts of day game and every guy's SP and Grungey's solutions to em. What was meant to be 30mins-1hour ended up being 2/3hours. I think. Grungey really does know his day game.

Meet a few LA PUAs that are well known in the community. Got a few numbers. Good networking.

Next step for me is to meet up with these guys and sarge. Probably this weekend. 8/9/10th.

(This was a direct day game seminar, very efficient, no BS. I like it, might have to change my style for daytime from VA now. Quiet the learning curve)


Overall: 8/10
Are any of you down to roll to the Atruim hotel in Irvine on Sunday for thier pool party? That would be day game heaven. And I need some wings.
 

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SpclDrkChclt said:
Are any of you down to roll to the Atruim hotel in Irvine on Sunday for thier pool party? That would be day game heaven. And I need some wings.
I wasn't aware of a pool party. I'm just with SoCal.

I know the guys from SoCal are meeting in Irvine Friday and (unofficially) Saturday. Quite a busy PUA weekend, perfect for networking and meeting potential wings your own level.

PM me if you live near Simi Valley/Thousand Oaks and are thinking of heading to Irvine Friday night June 8th. I wanna carpool, I hate my van.
 

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Northridge Mall daytime sarge

A fellow community member and I are setting something up but no exact time and location has been confirmed. June 15/16/17. Northridge/TO area. We're looking to do it next weekend during the day. Time and location will be decided closer to the date and deciding factors include member proximity and availability.

It's an opportunity to share ideas and techniques and then apply them in field ON THE SPOT. Then we can apply feedback and criticism RIGHT AWAY. Self improvement will soar when sarging with other members because you don't wait to go home to review your efforts (might give illusion that the PU went better than in real) and others will pick up on things you might have missed.

All are welcomed even if you're too chicken **** to approach. You can just watch. But if you don't approach, you buy us all an ice cream.

PM me your number and I'll give you a call when details emerge.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Northridge Mall meetnsarge is happening Saturday about afters lunch. I'm thinking of going to get lunch there so if you wanna go a lil early, np.

PM me ur number and I'll call ya Saturday or if I already have ur number, PM me to tell me ur interested.
 

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My bad, this is the Northridge Fashion Center by the 118 and 405 on Tampa. Not the Northridge Mall in Salinas.
 

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Hey what's up, I'm Prospect in LAX area. Where the parties at? :p
 

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Hey what's up? I'm Prospect from the LAX area. Where the parties at? :p
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SpclDrkChclt said:
how did that go?
Yea, it was good. A few crash n burns, some very solid approaches with number closes, some solid interactions but didn't get their number (16 yrs olds and what not) and had lunch with 2 different sets for 30mins+ with the cold approach. I don't know if I'ld do a mall again tho, too many youngsters. A lair member and I received a text the same day asking us to hang out THAT night. Too bad we lied our teeth off during the PU and didn't want to continue kicking the can with them.

Maybe when the Uni is back in session, mall sarges would be orite around campus areas but not during summer break.

All in all, discovered more types if IOIs, my SPs, my strengths and the almost fail proof way to PU sets with a wing. I have a FR posted in my lair forum but cos no one from this site went, I'll spare you the details and say it was a fun day. So much fun it ended at 10pm!

Next time fellas, you should come! I'm not judging anyone but come even if you're a keyboard warrior. You'll see that it's VERY easy to PU with like minded community people. Waay different from solo sarging or with friends.

-rBB
 

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I would be interested but live in north OC south LA area. If anybody is around here lemme know.
 

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Anybody around 25 or over? Would like to work/share game with anybody, but I don't want to look and seem like I'm your dad. Just imagine me rolling with some high school kids! haha.
 

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Anybody around 25 or over? Would like to work/share game with anybody, but I don't want to look and seem like I'm your dad. Just imagine me rolling with some high school kids! haha.
You know, age difference depends. I'm 23 myself, and my older bro is 32. We hang out together a lot and he doesn't seem at all like my Dad. Maybe in the way that he is protective, etc. but we look pretty similar so it's cool.

Not saying I want to hang out with you, as I've yet to even drive down to LA since I posted about it nearly a month ago. Hopefully I'll visit sometime next weekend and sarge with RBB. Maybe learn a thing or two from him.

But point being, some guys can be over 25 and not act or look like it. I've met a few people from this forum in the past and not everyone is the same. Just saying age is a number. Good luck find a wingman though.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You know, age difference depends. I'm 23 myself, and my older bro is 32. We hang out together a lot and he doesn't seem at all like my Dad. Maybe in the way that he is protective, etc. but we look pretty similar so it's cool.

Not saying I want to hang out with you, as I've yet to even drive down to LA since I posted about it nearly a month ago. Hopefully I'll visit sometime next weekend and sarge with RBB. Maybe learn a thing or two from him.

But point being, some guys can be over 25 and not act or look like it. I've met a few people from this forum in the past and not everyone is the same. Just saying age is a number. Good luck find a wingman though.
Look me up next time you'll be in town man. Was just saying that, as I was picturing myself hanging out with a bunch of high school kids, you know the feeling. Believe me, I know guys in their late 20's and 30's who act 15.
 

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Keep forums alive! We need new blood on the forums man not a lot of people are active. Anyway who lives in LA and hangs out in Hollywood, Pasadena, Burbank just give me a call don't be shy. 818-237-6825. Leave a message if I don't pick up. We need to get this thing going. I have several guys who are interested in participating in this.
 

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Hey I live in the SFV and am looking to meet up with wings to hit the clubs/bars with. If interested PM me. If there's any lairs for L.A., someone let me know too!
 

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Anybody around 25 or over? Would like to work/share game with anybody, but I don't want to look and seem like I'm your dad. Just imagine me rolling with some high school kids! haha.
26....
 

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i am interested to meet up. live in OC but drive up to LA almost every weekend. need to work on my game, i think having the same minded people around would help. hit me up.

i am 31
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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