"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I’m 28 year old male into this for 10 years. I’m new to cali and looking to meet new people anyone down to hang or wing dm me
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why would you move to CA?
 

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Still looking for people to go out in LA?
 

Travel memoir21

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The last time I went to Los Angeles, I visited some family and there were a buncha Asians everywhere. It felt like I was in China Town lol....and this was back in 2009. I can imagine it's more crowded and just as diverse than ever.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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bBox seats for anaheim world series. ex kciting
Wish I had a time machine to see Kobe play....Especially when they traded Kwame Brown for Pau Gasol back in 2007. I was in College and walking home from school when I received the news on my phone, from there, I knew they were gonna win a few more rings. Even though a lot of it is rigged, those games were entertaining. I hardly watch the NBA anymore now
 
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