Thebestthereeveris
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 2, 2020
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- Age
- 30
I’m 28 year old male into this for 10 years. I’m new to cali and looking to meet new people anyone down to hang or wing dm me
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I’ve lived in nyc before so same liberal bs. Always been a dream of mine but moving to Miami next couple years but still want to swueeze the juice of life while I’m hereWhy would you move to CA?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Wish I had a time machine to see Kobe play....Especially when they traded Kwame Brown for Pau Gasol back in 2007. I was in College and walking home from school when I received the news on my phone, from there, I knew they were gonna win a few more rings. Even though a lot of it is rigged, those games were entertaining. I hardly watch the NBA anymore nowbBox seats for anaheim world series. ex kciting