"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Looong Facebook messages

Forty0ztoFreedom

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How do you get out this trap? You go back and forth with a girl with flirty, funny exchanges . . and then when its about time to wrap it up and give it a rest, there's one long one about mundane sh*t that you're supposed to respond to. This will be an endless loop of back and forth messages which is an awesome way to kill any mystery and attraction.

Whats a good way to just wiggle out of it?

Calling her and making plans isn't an option right now. Just want to maintain the attraction and not facebook my way into the friend-zone.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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your not obligated to answer, just like texting you can choose not to respond and go to sleep or sign off. I suggest you don't use facebook to game, kills sense of mystery and ofcourse your business is out there.
 

Tesl

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Correct, just don't respond. Problem solved!
 

PapiChulo

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Facebook works if you use it right. I had b!tches reach me VIA fb, especially when we don't see each other at all.

Immature women will rather find some information about you and get intrigued before they decide to see you. I had chicks who see me regularly be very "careful" giving out information to me - not a facebook friend, eh?

The problem is that the quality of these women that use fb as a lazy way of shopping for a guy is low. They have too much time on their hands, addicted to technology, and are pu-ssies and real life. I have guts to dial them up, they are only capable of sending meaningless texts over the net.......

Attention whoring and ego-bloating is also prevalent....in both, men and women.

My take on that.

P.S. avoid that, and try to hit the up in real life as quickly as possible. If she doesnt chicken out-you have a real one.
 

Forty0ztoFreedom

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The girl is long distance. She's coming down month after next to meet up. These plans are also being worked out in the message, can't just 'not respond.'

I'll only respond to the relevant sh*t and keep it light and flirty.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Thundernuts

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good idea, dont give her your life story just fill in important things. if she ask about the other things deliberately then give her short answers, try and keep your personality a secret, leaves her wanting more.
 

teacha

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ignore and find some other bitches to fcuk. simple.

2 months is a long time to be waiting for pussy, anything can happen inbetween. Live in the present.
 
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