"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Looong Facebook messages

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Forty0ztoFreedom

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How do you get out this trap? You go back and forth with a girl with flirty, funny exchanges . . and then when its about time to wrap it up and give it a rest, there's one long one about mundane sh*t that you're supposed to respond to. This will be an endless loop of back and forth messages which is an awesome way to kill any mystery and attraction.

Whats a good way to just wiggle out of it?

Calling her and making plans isn't an option right now. Just want to maintain the attraction and not facebook my way into the friend-zone.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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your not obligated to answer, just like texting you can choose not to respond and go to sleep or sign off. I suggest you don't use facebook to game, kills sense of mystery and ofcourse your business is out there.
 
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Correct, just don't respond. Problem solved!
 
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Facebook works if you use it right. I had b!tches reach me VIA fb, especially when we don't see each other at all.

Immature women will rather find some information about you and get intrigued before they decide to see you. I had chicks who see me regularly be very "careful" giving out information to me - not a facebook friend, eh?

The problem is that the quality of these women that use fb as a lazy way of shopping for a guy is low. They have too much time on their hands, addicted to technology, and are pu-ssies and real life. I have guts to dial them up, they are only capable of sending meaningless texts over the net.......

Attention whoring and ego-bloating is also prevalent....in both, men and women.

My take on that.

P.S. avoid that, and try to hit the up in real life as quickly as possible. If she doesnt chicken out-you have a real one.
 
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Forty0ztoFreedom

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The girl is long distance. She's coming down month after next to meet up. These plans are also being worked out in the message, can't just 'not respond.'

I'll only respond to the relevant sh*t and keep it light and flirty.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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good idea, dont give her your life story just fill in important things. if she ask about the other things deliberately then give her short answers, try and keep your personality a secret, leaves her wanting more.
 
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ignore and find some other bitches to fcuk. simple.

2 months is a long time to be waiting for pussy, anything can happen inbetween. Live in the present.
 
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