"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Looong Facebook messages

Forty0ztoFreedom

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How do you get out this trap? You go back and forth with a girl with flirty, funny exchanges . . and then when its about time to wrap it up and give it a rest, there's one long one about mundane sh*t that you're supposed to respond to. This will be an endless loop of back and forth messages which is an awesome way to kill any mystery and attraction.

Whats a good way to just wiggle out of it?

Calling her and making plans isn't an option right now. Just want to maintain the attraction and not facebook my way into the friend-zone.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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your not obligated to answer, just like texting you can choose not to respond and go to sleep or sign off. I suggest you don't use facebook to game, kills sense of mystery and ofcourse your business is out there.
 

Tesl

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Correct, just don't respond. Problem solved!
 

PapiChulo

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Facebook works if you use it right. I had b!tches reach me VIA fb, especially when we don't see each other at all.

Immature women will rather find some information about you and get intrigued before they decide to see you. I had chicks who see me regularly be very "careful" giving out information to me - not a facebook friend, eh?

The problem is that the quality of these women that use fb as a lazy way of shopping for a guy is low. They have too much time on their hands, addicted to technology, and are pu-ssies and real life. I have guts to dial them up, they are only capable of sending meaningless texts over the net.......

Attention whoring and ego-bloating is also prevalent....in both, men and women.

My take on that.

P.S. avoid that, and try to hit the up in real life as quickly as possible. If she doesnt chicken out-you have a real one.
 

Forty0ztoFreedom

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The girl is long distance. She's coming down month after next to meet up. These plans are also being worked out in the message, can't just 'not respond.'

I'll only respond to the relevant sh*t and keep it light and flirty.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thundernuts

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good idea, dont give her your life story just fill in important things. if she ask about the other things deliberately then give her short answers, try and keep your personality a secret, leaves her wanting more.
 

teacha

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ignore and find some other bitches to fcuk. simple.

2 months is a long time to be waiting for pussy, anything can happen inbetween. Live in the present.
 
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