Looks

[steve_erkle]

I realized that i get a lot of my confidence from the way i look- If i look good that day I feel really good, but if i look bad i dont feel as confident.

I realize this isn't good (although i feel great when i look good), so what should i do about it?

 

[Larajihna]

I feel you with this. When I'm stomping around town looking like an unshaved beast (not that cool stubble that is seen on male models, think of random dark patches) I feel sans confident. But on the flip side, on a friday when I'm all shaved and wearing my civilian clothes, I feel like a champ. What do I recommend though? Try staying "good-looking" as much as possible. But that's my uneducated answer...

 

[steve_erkle]

I feel you with this. When I'm stomping around town looking like an unshaved beast (not that cool stubble that is seen on male models, think of random dark patches) I feel sans confident. But on the flip side, on a friday when I'm all shaved and wearing my civilian clothes, I feel like a champ. What do I recommend though? Try staying "good-looking" as much as possible. But that's my uneducated answer...

Well I'm gonna go out on a limb and say that althought we should always look our best, looking good is just a quick fix for confidence. Know what I mean?

 

[VdoubleR]

I realized that i get a lot of my confidence from the way i look- If i look good that day I feel really good, but if i look bad i dont feel as confident.

This happens to me, too. Thankfully I found a quick fix to, at least, make it not happen as frequently.

When I knew I was dressed good that day I felt like a champion, but if my attire was nothing great I felt less of a champion and more of an AFC. My quick solution for the clothing problem was to simply choose clothes for the next day the night before - that way even if in the morning I only have time for a shower, I won't pick whatever clothes are on the top of the pile because they're preselected.

If your problem is related to clothing maybe that can help you.

-VdoubleR

 

[java01]

Keep look'n good if you feel good about it.

You feel good because you look good, & women & people in general, will treat you 'good' because you 'feel' good, not because you 'look' good. So my advice is to imagine, & practice to imagine to ‘elude’ yourself looking good all the time, even though you don't. But all in all, if you wonna look good & feel good about it, by all means go ahead!

 

[FairShake]

On days you don't look as good take your approaches less seriously. Go casual and just try and have fun convos and don't put too much pressure on yourself.

 

[Jaggs]

I get this too haha. Bad hair days and bad clothes don't help.

But when I look good, it shows.