"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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looks vs game

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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hockeyfreak79

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A good buddy of mine, sh*t best wingman I've ever met hands down. In his 40's, not ugly idk 6-7?, he's not really is good shape either.

But it's just down right amazing some of the broads I've seen him pull in.

I've always relied on my looks, nope his game easily replaces looks and he is living proof no doubt.
 

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Good looks can cause complacency in a lot of men. They place too much value on the way they look and forget how important the psychology of attraction is when it comes to seduction and relationships.
 

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Jariel said:
Good looks can cause complacency in a lot of men. They place too much value on the way they look and forget how important the psychology of attraction is when it comes to seduction and relationships.
Agreed... Then there's also laziness and entitlement issues. Not much different from good looking women, really. Can't rely on looks alone... at least beyond the initial stages.
 

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True it was a decent comparison of poor game and looks vs game.

While the younger, inexperienced guy was better looking, really the other guy was good looking and youthful too. The one guy was about an 8 and the other was 6-7 at least. The better looking guy was approaching younger, white and arguably more attractive girls. They can be tougher for most anyone in a cold approach. The game guy was approaching older, ethnic and arguably less attractive girls. Overall it basically was a draw.

The show does have a game/pick up artist slant. You never know about the editing. Game or not having bad game can help guys who are above average looks. But it's not like the game guy was average looking.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Both were good looking.

The guy with game was approaching sexy girls too.
The first one he approach was sexy, dark, curly hair. My type. Lol.
 

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I would say they were pretty even in looks the difference being one was of Middle Eastern origin which I would imagine comes with a number of complications in the states. The young guy was probably experiencing fools mate, while the other guys was well versed in Mystery and Style's material. He had to deal with a lot more obstacles probably more than what a lot of other guys would experience, from what I could see. I thought he had a great deal of tenacity, interesting that he said he had read The Selfish Gene and The Red Queen. I think he proved that being stylish and well groomed along with game will win more consistently than relying on pot luck or fool's mate.
 
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