"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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looks vs game

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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hockeyfreak79

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A good buddy of mine, sh*t best wingman I've ever met hands down. In his 40's, not ugly idk 6-7?, he's not really is good shape either.

But it's just down right amazing some of the broads I've seen him pull in.

I've always relied on my looks, nope his game easily replaces looks and he is living proof no doubt.
 

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Good looks can cause complacency in a lot of men. They place too much value on the way they look and forget how important the psychology of attraction is when it comes to seduction and relationships.
 

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Jariel said:
Good looks can cause complacency in a lot of men. They place too much value on the way they look and forget how important the psychology of attraction is when it comes to seduction and relationships.
Agreed... Then there's also laziness and entitlement issues. Not much different from good looking women, really. Can't rely on looks alone... at least beyond the initial stages.
 

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True it was a decent comparison of poor game and looks vs game.

While the younger, inexperienced guy was better looking, really the other guy was good looking and youthful too. The one guy was about an 8 and the other was 6-7 at least. The better looking guy was approaching younger, white and arguably more attractive girls. They can be tougher for most anyone in a cold approach. The game guy was approaching older, ethnic and arguably less attractive girls. Overall it basically was a draw.

The show does have a game/pick up artist slant. You never know about the editing. Game or not having bad game can help guys who are above average looks. But it's not like the game guy was average looking.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Both were good looking.

The guy with game was approaching sexy girls too.
The first one he approach was sexy, dark, curly hair. My type. Lol.
 

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I would say they were pretty even in looks the difference being one was of Middle Eastern origin which I would imagine comes with a number of complications in the states. The young guy was probably experiencing fools mate, while the other guys was well versed in Mystery and Style's material. He had to deal with a lot more obstacles probably more than what a lot of other guys would experience, from what I could see. I thought he had a great deal of tenacity, interesting that he said he had read The Selfish Gene and The Red Queen. I think he proved that being stylish and well groomed along with game will win more consistently than relying on pot luck or fool's mate.
 
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