RSanders219
Don Juan
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HB 9 for sure
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
None of those girls are 8's, let alone 9's. Just because they have big boobs doesn't mean they are hot lol. I am always amazed at guys and their complete and utter fascination with large breasts. They are drawn to them like Homer to his beloved Duff beer. Get all salivating and sh!t. The first girl is WAY prettier than those other girls. Way. The one on the right is close face wise. That first girl pic was taken on the street, with next to no makeup on, not made up at all. And she is still prettier.Darth said:The structure of her face is a 7 or an 8, but the look on her face combined with her clothing suggests a major attitude problem.
HB 6 (for me).
EDIT: Here are some real 8's (maybe 9)
http://www.adrants.com/images/clicksector_girls.jpg
Bammmmmmmmmm. Now there ya go! Those are some HOT women!Naughty Ninja said:This thread is from RSD nation. I don't know where these girls are from but this is what the women in the Sicily nightclubs looked like AND were friendly as hell.
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/177234
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
cordoncordon said:Now there ya go! Those are some HOT women!
1-6 pics are all 8.5's or above.
Oh no doubt Italy has some FINE looking women. Number 6 in that montage is to me anyway a 9.88888888. The girl in the white. 1 and 2 are close.Naughty Ninja said:I work with girls that are that hot. And I've met girls in Sicily that hot.
They are just people. Fcuk all the tactics and just say hello to them. Especially if you see them on a daily basis. It's not that hard to do. There's way to much over analizing on this forum when you just have to be a cool person and open your friggin mouth.
They joke, talk, walk, laugh, etc. Just like US! Can you believe it?!
I would politely disagree.KarmaSutra said:At best, a 7.
You're not a woman if you don't have t!ts to fvck.
I would think the fact that she is blonde would get her extra attention (and points) since most Italian women have dark hair.Naughty Ninja said:In Italy she'd be a 6.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It's pretty hard to seperate the body from the equation. You can get at least a decent idea of what her body is like from the photo.JustLurk said:This is only judging the face, since it's the only thing I'm guessing has a mathematical range of agreed scores on. This is not a body rating.
I voted 7. These are what I'd consider 9's.JustLurk said:This is not a personality rating. That is not part of the question. Neither is it a measurement rating. This is only judging the face, since it's the only thing I'm guessing has a mathematical range of agreed scores on. This is not a body rating.
BTW feel free to post your ideas of 9-10's those of you that rated below 8.5. It might help me set this up or change my idea for the next pic.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.