SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Thoughts on the whole notion.
Also which of these do you think you have.
Also which of these do you think you have.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
looks, money and status.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Naughty Ninja
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SamTheHobit said:
Anyone who thinks Looks, Money, Status is the end all be all doesn't get out of their mothers basement and actually know many chicks.
It's a "good" thought to help recluses sleep at night though.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Megaman XIV
Senior Don Juan
Done to f**kin' death. God Damn.
zekko
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I don't know who the heck is getting laid without having at least some portion of one or more of these.SamTheHobit said:
I think I have a bit of all three, although I would like to have greater quantities of each. Of the three, probably status is the one I'm least concerned about. That one is largely about how people think about you.