SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Thoughts on the whole notion.
Also which of these do you think you have.
Also which of these do you think you have.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
looks, money and status.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Naughty Ninja
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SamTheHobit said:
Anyone who thinks Looks, Money, Status is the end all be all doesn't get out of their mothers basement and actually know many chicks.
It's a "good" thought to help recluses sleep at night though.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Megaman XIV
Senior Don Juan
Done to f**kin' death. God Damn.
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I don't know who the heck is getting laid without having at least some portion of one or more of these.SamTheHobit said:
I think I have a bit of all three, although I would like to have greater quantities of each. Of the three, probably status is the one I'm least concerned about. That one is largely about how people think about you.