"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Datinglife26

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1. Gym - You will stand taller and walk with more confidence when your body is strong. Plus its great for you

2. Haircut/facial grooming - Your face is the store front. Frame it nicely. Don't go "preppy" have a little controlled bed head going on, unless you are going to a black tie event you should have a casual laid back/i just did hard labour vibe. Too clean cut looks like you aren't manly.

3. Clothes - follow some mens fashion pages on instagram. Get ideas for outfit and what goes with what. Bob in his new balances isn't attracting 20yo Jessica unless she has super big daddy issues.

4. Stance - If you are ever at a bar, don't hold your drink up to your chest blocking your heart. it comes off as closed and defensive. Either put the drink down on the bar or hold your beer down by your side. Head up shoulders back. Own that ****.

5. Smell - Invest in a good aftershave. But really just be clean and smell nice. Nice body wash and fresh clothes washed in fabric softener and girls will want to stand next to you. Often you will hear "who smells good?" if you are in a group.

6. Car - If you have a car, keep it clean. Nothing worse than throwing the empty McDonalds packaging off the front seat so your date can sit down. Plus it smells bad.
 

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Diet , Skincare and gym

Aside from that it's down to who you are as an individual your dress sense and style should match your character ..... if you start trying to imitate a "look" she will sense it

Tattoos seem to be a major selling point now but again if they don't suit who you are don't bother

I can spot a guy who has had a tattoo for the sake of it a mile away and she can too
 

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Gym, metrosexual personal hygiene I’m talking monthly facials and manicures, a well maintained beard .. well fitting clothes
 
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