http://youtu.be/VMUrj9TDZCE?list=UU1rYBR1t45OA1EXexmPM1sQ
Listen to this dopey chick and leave your feedback.
Do looks matter?
Listen to this dopey chick and leave your feedback.
Do looks matter?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Looks matter? When Men will only Date Hot Women. Jlovetalk
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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i could eat a bowl of alphabet soup and sh!t better advice. i hate when people act like they are the authority on who you can date. looks can be very subjective.
Mike32ct
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I don't think most guys are aiming for 9s and 10s. But the rest of what she said was pretty accurate.
Looks are still the FIRST doorway that you have to pass through. You can't "game" or "show your personality" if she shuts you down at first sight. It's not that looks are everything. It's just that they come first.
She is also correct how social circle can sometimes be a "looks wildcard" at times and allow a guy to possibly date a hotter woman.
Looks are still the FIRST doorway that you have to pass through. You can't "game" or "show your personality" if she shuts you down at first sight. It's not that looks are everything. It's just that they come first.
She is also correct how social circle can sometimes be a "looks wildcard" at times and allow a guy to possibly date a hotter woman.
Assuming you, in fact, actually have "social proof" in that circle.skinnyguy said:
Most guys here would likely get AMOGed at a Starcraft convention. No offense, just sayin'. You actually have to be alpha to get "social proof." And if you're alpha, it's likely you don't need pointers on how to get social proof in the first place. Of course, being "alpha" at a Starcraft convention is likely very different than being "alpha" on, say, an NBA court.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I have a girl in my circle of friends who is HOT. I mean she walks into a room and every guy stares kinda hot. I use this girl for "social proof" all the time and you wouldn't believe the looks I get from women who wouldn't sh!t on me if I was alone. Why haven't I tried to date her? Way too crazy, would make a terrible girlfriend.lol I did try to bang when I first met her but it never happened but now that I've found a role for her (social proof) we get along great and have a lot of fun together. The thing is we really don't look like an odd couple at all, but it's just the looks I get and attention that comes with it is light years difference then if I'm by myself or with guy friends. Girls actually go out of their way to try and make her jelous but they don't realize we aren't even dating.lol It really is comical how broads act when you're with a female THEY consider hotter then them or as hot as them.skinnyguy said:
Agreed. This chick can do wonders for your game if used correctly. Just walking with her down the street will get you looks.Robert28 said:
Lately I've been hanging out with 3 women (coworkers). Been getting much more attention from females
Looks are still the FIRST doorway that you have to pass through. You can't "game" or "show your personality" if she shuts you down at first sight. It's not that looks are everything. It's just that they come first.
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Huffman
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Wow. This is the best wording on the issue I've seen so far. Should be the standard reply whenever somebody opens a new thread!Mike32ct said:
Anyway I can't stand watching girls filming themselves and talking (also called videoblogging). I hate it when guys do it as well, but somehow they way most female bloggers are talking instantly turns me off.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I mean I don't take her out to bars or clubs or anything, I rarely go to them myself anymore. It's just when our group of friends goes out and does stuff she will end up being by my side most of the time. We go out for each others birthday every year (she started that, not me) and she pays for me on my birthday and I pay for her on her birthday. She also buys me Christmas presents every year. They're usually stupid things, but presents nonetheless. She did admit to me onetime that she "felt safe" with me whenever we went out (whatever that means). Other times when friends of ours got married or whatever she'd always be "my date" and she actually got pissed when I took another girl once and didn't ask her, it's like she implied that she was my date no matter what.lol I think it has a lot to do that I've accepted that we are just friends and never going to be anything else and now that that's happened she acts like my girlfriend in public. It's kinda weird but whatever.Huffman said:
VladPatton
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2:35 seconds....couldn't take any more of this wh0re's talking lol
Hilarious thing is the chick in the video has done p0rn, has had God knows how much cosmetic surgery, looks, acts, and talks like a live retarded Barbie doll.VladPatton said:
Chick has "standards" for certain men to get her "level". :crackup:
I've had girls refuse to date me for all sorts of dumb@$$ reasons. Not being a single dad(yes she really only wanted to date guys with little b@stard kids), had a girl say she felt I wasn't "educated enough for her"(granted I only have a bachelors degree in Business Management while she has a h.s. diploma. She was only into dating guys with masters and doctorate degrees. I sh!t you not. That was her deal breaker.) The thing is most of these broads with these crazy "must haves" for men are still single and miserable as hell but they refuse to lower their standards.
Jair213
Master Don Juan
how do you know shes done porn?The411 said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Jair213 said:
Seen comments about it on a few of her other of these vids a while back. I think it was like 1 or 2. At least 1 vid. They mentioned her real name too.
The comments section though is loaded with puzzy pandering simps.
Jair213
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she never did porn. she got married young. ive known her for a couple of years now shes from los angeles. she seems annoying as fvk in the vids but shes actually a really down to earth chick shes actually a decent chick, met her husband also at a toyota supra meet like 2 years ago really cool guy.The411 said: