"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Looks matter - A guide to improving the way you look

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You know, you would see all the girls and the media tell that looks don't matter, that it's whats on the inside that counts, if you are nice you would get a girl, blah blah blah!

All the above is pure b***sh*t. I tell you looks matter. And they matter a lot. You are going to be judged by your appearance. On how you carry yourself, on how you dress, how clean you are.

One of my friend is really good with girls. So one day I decided I would just observe him, on the way he talks. He talked all the things what I talk. In fact, same reactions to certain comments as well. But the only differentiating factor was he looks 100 times better than me.

In this post I would share a few insights which I learned in the past couple of months to look good:
1) Hit the gym.
2) Walk straight and with confidence.
3) Wear bright clothes. Plain white t-shirt, with a red/blue shirt on top amazing.
4) Wear different coloured trousers/jeans. Brown, beige they do attract attention.
5) Trim your beard, get a haircut or if loosing hair (like me) shave it off.
6) Girls love guys with a ripped back. flat stomach, and a V-shaped figure. Work on it.
7) Wearing a jacket, or a shirt with open buttons and a t-shirt or vest underneath is a sign of an alpha (Read it in a blog post so don't know how much truth, but what I know is it works), try wearing them when going out.

Any more tips, feel free to add them below.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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