"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't understand how you guys can be bothered to be triggered over non-issues in pop culture and whatever else.. you guys come off to me like the mirror image of a petty, irritable woman/feminist.... I mean really Des, you of all people? come on. Take a breather in the woods, cut some lumber, go down to the lake, go have some fun and tease your girlfriend a bit...
 

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I don't understand how you guys can be bothered to be triggered over non-issues in pop culture and whatever else.. you guys come off to me like the mirror image of a petty, irritable woman/feminist.... I mean really Des, you of all people? come on. Take a breather in the woods, cut some lumber, go down to the lake, go have some fun and tease your girlfriend a bit...
I'm not bothered or triggered. Merely amused.
 

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I don't understand how you guys can be bothered to be triggered over non-issues in pop culture and whatever else.. you guys come off to me like the mirror image of a petty, irritable woman/feminist.... I mean really Des, you of all people? come on. Take a breather in the woods, cut some lumber, go down to the lake, go have some fun and tease your girlfriend a bit...
I'm not triggered. I don't have Netflix or cable TV so I don't get to see any of this crap.

I find it all amusing. When you start thinking about a show like this, you have to wonder if they've even put any thought into who the target audience is. Is it aimed at women who want to see a superhero movie with curvy middle-aged women in the lead roles? Is it aimed at men because they want to see curvy, middle-aged women who fight crime?

I'm pretty sure this is aimed at nobody. It's sole purpose is to prove a point that fat middle-aged women can be superheroes.
 
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I don't understand how you guys can be bothered to be triggered over non-issues in pop culture and whatever else.. you guys come off to me like the mirror image of a petty, irritable woman/feminist.... I mean really Des, you of all people? come on. Take a breather in the woods, cut some lumber, go down to the lake, go have some fun and tease your girlfriend a bit...
We know, we know...you like big girls. :)
 

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We know, we know...you like big girls. :)
If it weren't for feeling like America is a developing country compared to here, or a "shythole" as president Trump would have said, I would have had my eye on spending more time there for this reason.

If there was a place in America that had:

- Comprehensive pedestrian and bike paths and public transport
- Universal healthcare and tertiary education
- Affordable childcare and paid parental leave
- A negligible risk that me being brown is a problem
- A negligible amount of people who want to ban science, birth control, sex ed and abortion
- Clean food and environment
- Not too much more crime than here
- A warm enough climate to never be freezing*

* The one thing Sweden doesn't have.

Then I could justify going to America again. I think I saw more thick girls just when I passed through the airports than I've done in my whole life here in Sweden.

Why can't you get your act together? I want my fat girls Tyte :( but as it is now, I just can't be with you babe.
 
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If it weren't for feeling like America is a developing country compared to here, or a "shythole" as president Trump would have said, I would have had my eye on spending more time there for this reason.

If there was a place in America that had:

- Comprehensive pedestrian and bike paths and public transport
- Universal healthcare and tertiary education
- Affordable childcare and paid parental leave
- A negligible risk that me being brown is a problem
- A negligible amount of people who want to ban science, birth control, sex ed and abortion
- Clean food and environment
- Not too much more crime than here
- A warm enough climate to never be freezing*

* The one thing Sweden doesn't have.

Then I could justify going to America again. I think I saw more thick girls just when I passed through the airports than I've done in my whole life here in Sweden.

Why can't you get your act together? I want my fat girls Tyte :( but as it is now, I just can't be with you babe.
Oh, but we have more than just fat girls

 

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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One good thing about the states is that if things are bad where you're at, you can pick up and move to another state. Nothing to it.

That's also a bad thing, as you have leftists from California and New York that flee their own dangerous, expensive states in search of greener pastures. Greener pastures tend to be conservative states.
 

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One good thing about the states is that if things are bad where you're at, you can pick up and move to another state. Nothing to it.

That's also a bad thing, as you have leftists from California and New York that flee their own dangerous, expensive states in search of greener pastures. Greener pastures tend to be conservative states.
Are you sure those people are leftists, and not rightists moving there since their own states are not Republican?

By the way, the policies that drive up the expenses are not left wing economics. Just because the Republican party is a right wing fringe, does not mean the Democrats are an economically left wing party. They con their constituency all the same (as much as you can argue that people are "conned" by what they choose to vote for).
 
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Are you sure those people are leftists, and not rightists moving there since their own states are not Republican?

By the way, the policies that drive up the expenses are not left wing economics. Just because the Republican party is a right wing fringe, does not mean the Democrats are an economically left wing party. They con their constituency all the same (as much as you can argue that people are "conned" by what they choose to vote for).
South Florida is a retirement hot spot for New Yorkers and others from the Northeast. Night and day difference between South Florida and North Florida.

California and New York are left wing by our standards.
 
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"God's Waiting Room."

One thing I know is most people aren't in lock step with parties.

Take the Jew retirees in SoFla. Militantly pro-Israel, but usually pretty liberal otherwise. Jews kind of invented modern social justice, though not the whiny bytchy kind we have today.

Meanwhile, Cuban-Americans in Miami are probably pretty liberal except that they mostly hate Castro or whoever's in charge now in Cuba. But it's been 60 years and those attitudes are shifting.

And I'm still generalizing. Most people probably agree with aspects of either party. Politicians are usually afraid to stand apart from their parties. There are exceptions depending on constituents, e.g. Bernie Sanders was very pro-2nd Amendment or so I read. Bill Clinton was pro-death penalty. And so on.
South Florida Cubans are mostly conservative, from my experience. Marco Rubio is a good example, but they've always had a major presence in the Florida legislature.
 

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I don't think that there is another " south florida cuban on this forum other than me, so I can speak to this yes we are probably the most conservative latins in the U.S.. the ones in more liberal states tend to be more liberal but not as much as other latins. As far as the U.S. being a developing country as @AttackFormation likes to put it, every time he has a chance to show me that he doesn't know what he thinks he knows he never fails, I gotta give it to him the man is insanely consistent. @AttackFormation don't come to the U.S. every thing the left wing press is telling you is 100% true and don't even think of questioning it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Are you sure those people are leftists, and not rightists moving there since their own states are not Republican?

By the way, the policies that drive up the expenses are not left wing economics. Just because the Republican party is a right wing fringe, does not mean the Democrats are an economically left wing party.
This isn't a blanket endorsement of Trump, but since we're talking economics:
I'm certain that my taxes have gone down and my investments have gained value since he became president.
 

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This isn't a blanket endorsement of Trump, but since we're talking economics:
I'm certain that my taxes have gone down and my investments have gained value since he became president.
That may well be true since someone like Trump, and those who back him, both make their money off of capital gains and want to untax those capital gains. And capital gains are how people get rich in general, not productive work.
 

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That may well be true since someone like Trump, and those who back him, both make their money off of capital gains and want to untax those capital gains.
It's not just capital gains though, he's lowered the income tax rates for everybody. So everybody is keeping more of their money, unless they have no income.
 

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It's not just capital gains though, he's lowered the income tax rates for everybody. So everybody is keeping more of their money, unless they have no income.
Well, I haven't personally checked the tax plan and this video is two years old, but here's what the economist I listen to has to say about Trump's tax plan:


I'm glad for whatever's good though. This is no big deal to me.
 
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Leftists are economic incels, just like the incels hate the chads and the women that have sex with the chads, the leftists hate anyone that is economically productive or makes money. It doesn't matter how many times their ideas have failed because this time it will be different, it doesn't matter that maybe if they brought some value to the table and made some better decisions in their lives they could also be prosperous enough so that they can also be taxed to death for stupid things like robotic squirrels and treadmills for shrimp to exercise on. In the end big daddy government is the all powerful god that should fix everything.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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