"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Looks don't mean anything?!
- Thread starter Thatfeel21
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
L777
Master Don Juan
I seriously feel sorry for you lot.
SickAgain
Senior Don Juan
Let me use this analogy... I'm short as **** and most women I meet are taller than me (at least in clubs since they all wear heels) and my other fairly short friends say they don't like to hit on taller girls. I figure i'll hit on whoever I find attractive regardless because I don't want to limit my chances with any attractive women.
For those of you who don't believe me, I'm 6''1 170 pounds. I got a big chin and a pretty good sized nose. I have accepted my flaws and it doesn't bother me. I still know that I deserve a good looking girl and that they are not better than me because they got good looks and I didn't.
Don't let it get to you. Looks only matter if they bring down your mental state/attitude. Being insecure is a huge turn off for both men and women.
I am not going to say that I am an Adonis, but for most of my life I have been told by people, mostly women, that I am a very handsome guy. I have often found women staring at me on a crowded bus, waiting in a store queue etc.
The fact is I am here on this site having to learn skills with chicks. That should answer itself that looks are irrelevant. Whatever benefits I may have apparently had, this has not translated to huge success or I wouldn't be here at all
Moreover, I have seen loads and loads of guys I have known pull some of the hottest chicks I have seen and I was entirely jealous of them. In some cases these were guys that other women I know comented on were kind of ugly.
So let this serve as an example, looks are only skin deep. How you carry yourself and how you come across to a women is clearly more important as I am learning and trying to put into practice.
Peace out.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.