"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Looks don't mean anything?!
- Thread starter Thatfeel21
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
L777
Master Don Juan
I seriously feel sorry for you lot.
SickAgain
Senior Don Juan
Let me use this analogy... I'm short as **** and most women I meet are taller than me (at least in clubs since they all wear heels) and my other fairly short friends say they don't like to hit on taller girls. I figure i'll hit on whoever I find attractive regardless because I don't want to limit my chances with any attractive women.
For those of you who don't believe me, I'm 6''1 170 pounds. I got a big chin and a pretty good sized nose. I have accepted my flaws and it doesn't bother me. I still know that I deserve a good looking girl and that they are not better than me because they got good looks and I didn't.
Don't let it get to you. Looks only matter if they bring down your mental state/attitude. Being insecure is a huge turn off for both men and women.
I am not going to say that I am an Adonis, but for most of my life I have been told by people, mostly women, that I am a very handsome guy. I have often found women staring at me on a crowded bus, waiting in a store queue etc.
The fact is I am here on this site having to learn skills with chicks. That should answer itself that looks are irrelevant. Whatever benefits I may have apparently had, this has not translated to huge success or I wouldn't be here at all
Moreover, I have seen loads and loads of guys I have known pull some of the hottest chicks I have seen and I was entirely jealous of them. In some cases these were guys that other women I know comented on were kind of ugly.
So let this serve as an example, looks are only skin deep. How you carry yourself and how you come across to a women is clearly more important as I am learning and trying to put into practice.
Peace out.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.