"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Looks don't mean anything?!

horaholic

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This thread should have been left to die.:nono:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You guys are like 25 to 35 and you're still caught up in this ****.

I seriously feel sorry for you lot.
 

SickAgain

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So pretty much the OP says that average looking dudes should go for average looking girls? Whatever haha most guys are average looking anyways, you better get your game on point if you want a hot girl. They'll give you a chance but they've heard it all so you better stand out from the pack. That's what stopping you guys. Because they already know that deep down every guys wants their pants......

Let me use this analogy... I'm short as **** and most women I meet are taller than me (at least in clubs since they all wear heels) and my other fairly short friends say they don't like to hit on taller girls. I figure i'll hit on whoever I find attractive regardless because I don't want to limit my chances with any attractive women.
 

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I'm not good looking.....I would say a 5 or 6.... I lay 7-9's. It doesn't matter as much as you think. I am very confident that I am the total package. If your ugly you see your self as "out of her league" or "not good enough." I think it's all in your head.

For those of you who don't believe me, I'm 6''1 170 pounds. I got a big chin and a pretty good sized nose. I have accepted my flaws and it doesn't bother me. I still know that I deserve a good looking girl and that they are not better than me because they got good looks and I didn't.

Don't let it get to you. Looks only matter if they bring down your mental state/attitude. Being insecure is a huge turn off for both men and women.
 

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This is a post I want to respond to.

I am not going to say that I am an Adonis, but for most of my life I have been told by people, mostly women, that I am a very handsome guy. I have often found women staring at me on a crowded bus, waiting in a store queue etc.

The fact is I am here on this site having to learn skills with chicks. That should answer itself that looks are irrelevant. Whatever benefits I may have apparently had, this has not translated to huge success or I wouldn't be here at all:)

Moreover, I have seen loads and loads of guys I have known pull some of the hottest chicks I have seen and I was entirely jealous of them. In some cases these were guys that other women I know comented on were kind of ugly.

So let this serve as an example, looks are only skin deep. How you carry yourself and how you come across to a women is clearly more important as I am learning and trying to put into practice.

Peace out.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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