"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Looks are the only thing that matters!!

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God_of_getting_layed

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since it was intentionally moved to the archive to reduce the exposure of this most important thread on sosuave ever, Im going to help it regain it's deserved exposure by posting a link in the main discussion:

here it is:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=24670&page=44

see the truth.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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That post should have died long before it did. It's stupid.

Please, let it go and spend the time spent arguing working on your game.
That will help you far more than something you can't change beyond a certain point.
 
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Don't bother using reason or experience to argue with these 'looks are ALL that matters' zealots.

Despite the testimony of all the people here that have found that it was changing their PERSONALITY and getting CONFIDENCE that was key, they are determined to disprove something that practically nobody here believes - that looks DON'T matter.

Of course APPEARANCE (as opposed to the nebulous 'looks') is a huge factor, but to state that it is the ONLY factor is a position so self-evidently untrue as to not warrant debate.

Let's talk about Rumsfeld instead. Hahahahahaha! (snip)
 
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johnnyrem said:
That post should have died long before it did. It's stupid...
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:crazy: Make it stop, make it stop, MAKE IT STOP!!!! :crazy:
 
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all women are attracted to a different type of look soley, you may be hot to one, but to another your ewwww.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Personality/attitude is also important. Some women are totally turn off if your behavior doest suit them.
 
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Could it be that a confident guy is like a (slightly) slutty girl? You know you're gonna **** and that she'll probably kiss you on the first date. Of course you'd rather have a "nice girl", but they are always such a pain in the ass to do anything sexual with.
Couldn't this be almost exactly what women think?
 
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God_of_getting_layed said:
since it was intentionally moved to the archive to reduce the exposure of this most important thread on sosuave ever, Im going to help it regain it's deserved exposure by posting a link in the main discussion:

here it is:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=24670&page=44

see the truth.
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This guy is an attention w.hore...please don't reply to his trolling...he WANTS you to react.
 
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