"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Looks are the only thing that matters!!

God_of_getting_layed

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since it was intentionally moved to the archive to reduce the exposure of this most important thread on sosuave ever, Im going to help it regain it's deserved exposure by posting a link in the main discussion:

here it is:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=24670&page=44

see the truth.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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That post should have died long before it did. It's stupid.

Please, let it go and spend the time spent arguing working on your game.
That will help you far more than something you can't change beyond a certain point.
 

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Don't bother using reason or experience to argue with these 'looks are ALL that matters' zealots.

Despite the testimony of all the people here that have found that it was changing their PERSONALITY and getting CONFIDENCE that was key, they are determined to disprove something that practically nobody here believes - that looks DON'T matter.

Of course APPEARANCE (as opposed to the nebulous 'looks') is a huge factor, but to state that it is the ONLY factor is a position so self-evidently untrue as to not warrant debate.

Let's talk about Rumsfeld instead. Hahahahahaha! (snip)
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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johnnyrem said:
That post should have died long before it did. It's stupid...
:crazy: Make it stop, make it stop, MAKE IT STOP!!!! :crazy:
 

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all women are attracted to a different type of look soley, you may be hot to one, but to another your ewwww.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Personality/attitude is also important. Some women are totally turn off if your behavior doest suit them.
 

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Could it be that a confident guy is like a (slightly) slutty girl? You know you're gonna **** and that she'll probably kiss you on the first date. Of course you'd rather have a "nice girl", but they are always such a pain in the ass to do anything sexual with.
Couldn't this be almost exactly what women think?
 

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God_of_getting_layed said:
since it was intentionally moved to the archive to reduce the exposure of this most important thread on sosuave ever, Im going to help it regain it's deserved exposure by posting a link in the main discussion:

here it is:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=24670&page=44

see the truth.
This guy is an attention w.hore...please don't reply to his trolling...he WANTS you to react.
 
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